
The life of a café latte
You look at the two tall transparent glasses in front of you. A shiny metal stirrer rests between them …

I am gay
I recently had a discussion with someone who told me that he doesn’t like using the word ‘gay’ because sexuality is fluid …

The body speaks
During the last three months I underwent three surgeries in my pubic area: fixing an inguinal hernia …

Fearing what I want; wanting what I fear
For years I’ve lived my life guided by the reins of safety. Security served as the north star …

Do you like S&M?
S&M: sadism and masochism – two words that elicit a range of reactions from disgust and judgement to curiosity and excitement …

Pain must and will come
We try to avoid pain. We surround ourselves with comfort. We invest in our future …

Facing the hurricane
We are afraid of the unknown – a force so much bigger than we are and over which we have no control. We are afraid it will crush us, destroy us …

For now
You chose to sail through stormy weather, unchartered waters and raging seas. You could run away live life as many do: as “normal” guys –

Intense release
Touch me – bring me to the edge. Moaning I withhold that which you let me retain waiting for that cry of release














